The One Year Anniversary Advice

Wedding Anniversary Quotes To Make Any Heart Melt

The One Year Anniversary Advice

Updated March 03, 2020

Reviewer Audrey Kelly, LMFT




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  • Iloveyou,andIwillloveyouuntilIdie,andifthereislifeafterthat,I'llloveyouthen.―CassandraClare,CityofGlass
  • Inolongerbelievedintheideaofsoulmates,orloveatfirstsight.ButIwasbeginningtobelievethataveryfewtimesinyourlife,ifyouwerelucky,youmightmeetsomeonewhowasexactlyrightforyou.Notbecausehewasperfect,orbecauseyouwere,butbecauseyourcombinedflawswerearrangedinawaythatallowedtwoseparatebeingstohingetogether.―LisaKleypas,Blue-EyedDevil
  • Afriendissomeonewhoknowsallaboutyouandstilllovesyou.Thankyouforstillbeingmybestfriendthat. ―ElbertHubbard(Adapted)
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  • Theydidn'tagreeonmuch.Infact,theydidn'tagreeonanything.Theyfoughtallthetimeandchallengedeachothereveryday.Butdespitetheirdifferences,theyhadoneimportantthingincommon.Theywerecrazyabouteachother. ―NicholasSparks,TheNotebook
  • Whenloveisnotmadnessitisnotlove. ―PedroCalderóndelaBarca
  • Theidea,youknow,isthatthesentimentalpersonthinksthingswilllastwhiletheromanticpersonhasadesperateconfidencethattheywon't.Thankyouforturningmefromaromantictoasentimentalperson.―F.ScottFitzgerald,ThisSideofParadise(Adapted)
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  • Itisn'tpossibletoloveandpart.Youwillwishthatitwas.Youcantransmutelove,ignoreit,muddleit,butyoucanneverpullitoutofyou.Iknowbyexperiencethatthepoetsareright:loveiseternal. ―E.M.Forster,ARoomwithaView
  • Romanceistheglamourwhichturnsthedustofeverydaylifeintoagoldenhaze.Thankyouforkeepingourromancealive. ―ElinorGlyn(Adapted)
  • Youclaimaspecialplaceinmyheart,oneI'llcarrywithmeforeverandthatnoonecaneverreplace. ―NicholasSparks,DearJohn(Adapted)
  • Theheartisanarrow.Itdemandsaimtolandtrue.Youraimwasimpeccable50yearsago. ―LeighBardugo,SixofCrows(Adapted)
  • It'snonsensetothinkoffriendshipandromanceasbeingdifferent.They'renot.They'rejustvariationsofthesamelove.Variationsofthesamedesiretobeclose. ―RachelCohn,NaomiandEly'sNoKissList(Adapted)
  • Yes,Idecided,onecantrulychange.Timehastaughtmemuchaboutmyself,andafewuniversaltruths.Ilearned,forinstance,thatwhilewoundscanbeinflictedeasilyuponthosewelove,it'softenmuchmoredifficulttohealthem.Yettheprocessofhealingthosewoundsprovidedtherichestexperienceofmylife,leadingmetobelievethatwhileI'veoftenoverestimatedwhatIcouldaccomplishinaday,IhadunderestimatedwhatIcoulddoinayear.Butmostofall,Ilearnedthatit'spossiblefortwopeopletofallinloveoverandoveragain,nomatterhowmanydisappointmentsarebetweenthem. ―NicholasSparks,TheWedding(Adapted)



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  • Whenmarrying,askyourselfthisquestion:Doyoubelievethatyouwillbeabletoconversewellwiththispersonintoyouroldage?Everythingelseinmarriageistransitory. -FNietzsche


  • Aweddinganniversaryisthecelebrationoflove,trust,partnership,toleranceandtenacity.Theordervariesforanygivenyear.


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On My Anniversary: My Best Advice for a Happy Marriage

The One Year Anniversary Advice

It’s my anniversary, and I’m feeling philosophical.

I love being married.  I think it’s because I chose the right guy.  So in honor of my 11th anniversary, I’m offering up my 11 best marriage tips.

1.  Marry Your Best Friend.

From the beginning, I have loved spending time with my husband.  I knew he was “the one” when I would rather go renew my car tags with him than go for a picnic with anyone else.

Turns out, this is a recipe for success. The most important factor for a good marriage is a strong friendship.

2.  He’s the One. Really.

When things are tough–especially in the first year–the tendency is to abandon all sense of proportion (say, after he’s put the empty milk jug in the fridge, again) and wonder if you’ve made some epic mistake and married the wrong person. You didn’t. He’s the one. Don’t waste your energy on this.

3.  Marriage is Hard.  But Not in the Way You Expect.

I married a really great guy. Which, oddly enough, made for a frequently painful first year of marriage for me.  It was a good year, but suddenly I was partnered with another human being–with his own needs, desires, plans and schedules. Living with my husband that first year made me realize for the first time how selfish I really was. Discovering your own glaring faults is not fun.

But, as my husband said repeatedly during Year 1, if this is what “hard” looks –bring it on!

4.  It’s What You Do Every Day That Counts.

Before I actually got married, I thought that a relationship was defined by its Big Moments. The Romantic Proposal, the Night on the Town, the Major Crisis, the Big Fight.  I was wrong.

It turns out, a marriage is made of a million little moments, and comparatively few Big Moments. The everyday things matter more.  The kiss good morning, the smile hello, the what-can-I-get-you-dear, the casual touch on the arm.  Or the lack thereof.  It’s the mundane, day-to-day moments that set the tone for the relationship.

5.  Sometimes You Will Want to Wage War.  Learn To Get Over It.

I have become blindingly infuriated with my husband over things so petty I wouldn’t dream of enumerating them here.  It happens.  Learn to deal with it.

Last time my husband and I were gridlocked over an issue that was minor but loaded with significance all the same, I happened to sit down to sort through some old papers.

  My pile held a poem I’d saved that my sweet friend had written me for a bridal shower way back when, complete with goofy rhymes and (mild) potty talk.

And a sweet sentiment along the lines of “he’ll do really stupid things sometimes, but remember–he’s crazy about you.”  The combination of humor and perspective brought me back to my senses.

6.  The Strangest Things Will Be Wonderful for Your Marriage

An example:  our marriage has benefited enormously by my going back to work part-time. A few hours a week, my husband watches the kids while I go to the office.

I never foresaw the positive effect this would have on our relationship.  Now I know what it’s to come home from work to a waiting family.  And he knows what it’s to stay home with the kids.  This deepened empathy for each others’ roles has been great for our relationship.  And navigating the logistics of two working parents keep us attuned to the day-to-day flow of each others’ lives.

7.  People Change–So Will Your Marriage.

You both are living, breathing, evolving people. Your marriage will also evolve. Things may have to be constantly re-thought and re-engineered.  The important thing is that you do it together. I love Lisa McMinn’s pithy quote:  “A strong marriage is one in which the husband and wife say to each other, ‘I am highly committed to your growth as a person.'”

8.  Go to Bed at the Same Time.

This is our favorite time to talk, and it’s good accountability to go to bed on time. 

9.  Timing is everything.

This one took me the better part of a decade to even begin to learn. When we were dating, I thought my man immediately wanted to hear every fascinating thought that popped in my head. Reality check:  there’s not much you can’t talk about with your spouse–if you choose your timing with care.

10. Create Good Boundaries.

Your marriage is the most important relationship in your life. Protect it. Work, friends, parents, in-laws–these things are all good, but don’t let them crowd out your husband.

Your spouse needs to be the most important person in your life. And he needs to know it by your actions.

11. Plan–But Know You’re Not in Control.

My husband and I have had so much fun planning and dreaming about our future over the years.

But it’s laughable to look back and compare our reality with those grand schemes!  Make the plans, dream the dreams–but you don’t know what’s coming next. You may get a great job offer; you may lose your job.

You may carefully lay out your plans for starting a family–but you can’t force a pregnancy (and you can’t always prevent one, either).

You don’t know what surprises are in store for you, so you can save yourself a lot of frustration by tacking this caveat onto your grand schemes.  You are not in control.

What are your best marriage tips?

To all you married ladies out there–especially if you have more happily married years under your belt than I do–what’s your best tip for a happy marriage?

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1 Year Dating Anniversary: 10 Ideas for Her

The One Year Anniversary Advice

No daily realities can break love, unless the love is false. The true love will give you the strength to cope with all minor troubles, which arise after one year of dating.

The First Year And The First Milestone: What Changes After One Year Of Dating

Of course, not all modern young men and ladies know how to buy food, how to clean up, how to wash, and even how to cook. Far in the past, young brides were taught to do all these, so that they were ready to go into a married life.

Nowadays, parents prefer to watch their daughters happy rather than exhausted, they try to prevent their daughters from hard work saying, “You will have plenty of time to work, have a rest now.” Not to mention how modern parents take care of their sons.

It’s no fun, but that’s life.

When the wedding party is over, and the received money, they were counting so passionately during the first wedding night, is over, a just-married couple feels that they need to save, plan their expenses properly, take care of their apartment and arrange their life in general.

The same is about couples, who are dating for one year already. Luckily, there is nothing impossible, and all you need to do at this point is to learn and avoid the following terrible mistakes of 1 year of dating:

  • Don’t nag each other so thoroughly for some trifles.
  • Don’t attempt to keep your place super clean.
  • Prevent your place from turning into a total mess.
  • Don’t live the ascetic lifestyle for the sake of some anticipated savings, which rarely materialize in reality.

The main thing to keep in mind dating 1 year is don’t let your love fade due to some insignificant issues. Just hope that everything else will come later, as the progress will come through trial and error.

Owls, larks and peckerwoods

How many times have marriage counselors exhorted couples to respect each other's features, even adjust a little, show their love in deeds, and not just in words! Unfortunately, even one year dating couples come to marriage counselors.

The key thing is that most of them ignore the tips or follow them for about a week in the best case. One of the biggest issues is the difference between biorhythms.

This is what happens in most cases: “The one who is awake perceives the dreaming partner a criminal”.

Psychologists have come up with a joke on that matter, identifying three types of people according to their biorhythm:

  • 1st type: Owls – they go to sleep late and get up late.
  • 2nd type: Larks – go to bed early and wake up early.
  • 3rd type: Peckerwoods – the owls get up early because of them, and the larks go to sleep late.

So, if someone in your couple is a peckerwood, it's a bad sign. Because the very nature made some people feel active in the morning, while others feel half asleep. Breaking biorhythms is useless even a long-term re-skilling won’t work (for example, if the owl needs to get up for work before dawn).

The only thing you will achieve in this case is a chronic irritation and even depression. I am actually shocked with those men and women who insistently wake their beloved owls up at the crack of dawn, or do not let their sweet larks fall asleep before midnight by watching TV loudly. Such a thoughtless attitude will lead to a breakup sooner or later.

Do you think this situation may somehow remind you your one year into relationship?

There are many ways to help larks get along even with the heaviest owls and vice versa. The trick is the design of your place.

Thus, the bedroom in this case should be located in the northern room (so that the sun does not wake your owl up in the morning), and the kitchen with a TV on the wall should be at the other end of the apartment, so that the coffee maker, morning news and other stuff do not interfere the sweet dreams of your partner, and the night tea and chatting won’t disturb the lark. Everything can be solved if you want to.

However, being attentive, caring and respectful to the needs and features of the partner will tell about a true love. And this is the only possible way to easily and painlessly survive the one year dating crisis.

1 Year Dating Anniversary Ideas For Her

If the harmony between a man and a woman has been preserved throughout the 1 year into the relationship, we can say without doubts: this couple treat each other with patience and love and will remain together for many years. Psychologists say, “The first year dating anniversary is a certain line before the crisis, a milestone when the lovers learn both positive and negative features about each other.”

One year dating anniversary is the first joint holiday symbolizing love, understanding, and respect. In order to make your feelings even stronger, psychologists recommend celebrating “personal” holidays together.

An extraordinary night and romantic gifts will leave both of you with incredible impressions.

Things to do for one year anniversary of dating is the eternal question for almost all lovers, as well as the question of one year dating anniversary gifts.

On the anniversary eve, we recommend you considering your plan of action, which usually three main points:

1. The time when the celebration will take place: if it is a weekday, it is reasonable to celebrate the anniversary in the evening. If the celebration will take place on weekends, you can start devoting time to each other right in the morning.

2. Decide on who should be present at the anniversary: the question of the presence of relatives, friends, and colleagues should be discussed. If the couple decides to invite the company, it is recommended to come up with a holiday scenario in advance.

3. The financial issue: check the available funds for the one year dating anniversary gift, for celebrating it in a restaurant.

If the holiday starts in the morning

Let’s assume that the lovers live together. While the lady is sleeping, we recommend you to quickly buy a bouquet of flowers. At this time, the lady may also prepare a surprise for her beloved and come up with a delicious breakfast (it may be heart-shaped sandwiches and coffee).

After the breakfast, you can go for a walk in the park and enjoy the memories about your first kisses and first loving gazes, which will awake the nostalgic feelings in both of you.

It does not matter whether you have lunch in a café, eating soup and burgers, or in a fancy restaurant, serving gourmet meals. What matters here is the atmosphere and your personal romantic memories. We also recommend you to hire a photograph for your 1 year dating anniversary.

You can use the service of a professional photographer or make a photo session by yourself, using your selfie function.

The romantic evening should be special. For this purpose we recommend you to buy some wax candles, aroma incense, and red roses for your romantic celebration. Make a warm bath, add some bubble bath and rose petals. We also recommend taking a bath together and fully enjoying the intimacy. Do not forget about some pleasant quiet music.

If guests come to the celebration

Friends, colleagues, close people will hasten to congratulate the lovers with the anniversary of their relations. If the arrival of guests is planned, it is recommended to consider the scenario of the holiday the day before the party.

It can be a joint trip to a park or a forest with a guitar and kebabs; or a visit to the theater, cinema, historical museum; or a wild trip to another city. You can arrange the party on the roof of the house (in the summer).

To avoid overlapping, it is recommended to manage to get the key from the attic of a high building in advance (exit to the roof); bring a small table, chairs. Dishes can be various, but even fruits and champagne will do. Decorate the venue for the holiday with inflatable hearts, balls and ribbons.

If only the two of you are going to celebrate

Here is one of the best romantic anniversary night ideas. If a man and a woman wish to remain alone on the anniversary, you can recreate the full picture of the first date: the first touch, the first kiss. It is important to remember all the details of the situation, the time and place.

You can either discuss this option in advance or make it a surprise for your beloved one, for example, to call, and agree on the meeting (where the first date or the most romantic one happened). You can come with flowers and a one year dating anniversary gifts for her.

The girl should give a present to her beloved, as well.

Ideas for anniversary celebration

1. Go to an unfamiliar city. Buy tickets on a train to a city where you have not been yet. Make sure to grab the camera. In the new city you will discover a completely fresh feeling even towards each other. Besides, it is a great way to spend a weekend together, because often we feel the lack of time and cannot fully enjoy the company of our beloved ones.

2. Make a love story photo shoot. Think in advance about what you want to see in your pictures. The more creative they are, the better. For example, you may follow the Bonnie and Clyde style or put on family T-shirts for the shoot. In other words, let your imagination work for you. You can make a set of romantic selfies on your own or hire a professional photographer.

3. Fresh up your memories. Go to the place where you met for the first time, to the place of your first date or your first kiss. Think of how your relationship started, and what has changed since then. We guarantee that you will get the ocean of positive emotions, laughter and tenderness!

4. A trip to the night city. If you do not have your own car, you can rent it. Take your favorite music and go for a drive around the night city along the flashing lights. It is not necessary to spend the whole evening in the car, make a stop to have a snack or a walk. Perhaps, you will even want to spend the night in the car.

5. Spa services for two. You can start with a joint shower in the morning. Add some aroma bubble bath and massage to make it more special. Afterwards, go to the spa center or an aqua park together. The first option will help you relax and restore your powers, and the second one will fill both of you with energy and positive emotion that will turn into fabulous memories.

6. A home party. You can make a party for your beloved one without leaving home. Start the day with a pleasant surprise. The surprise is up to you, of course. You can also present a nice handmade gift.

It can be a beautiful box with some romantic words on it, “100 reasons I love you”. Write these very 100 reasons down (each on a separate sheet), and let your beloved get one sheet per day.

Afterwards, you may develop your individual scenario: champagne and candles or a great movie and popcorn.

7. Let your joint dream come true. If you've been talking about skydiving or having a ride in a gig and listening to your favorite song, or spend a night on the beach – it's time to implement it! Unforgettable emotions are guaranteed!

A gift for your beloved girl for the anniversary of your relationship

Men often have problems with choosing gifts, even though the options are various nowadays. They are wondering about what gift to pick in order to make their lady happy, but cannot decide on the gift. In order to make the right choice, you need to know the nature of your beloved, her preferences and desires. Of course, you can use the list of standard anniversaries presents:

  • Chocolate sweets;
  • Champagne;
  • A teddy bear.

Classic gifts can be diversified with a list of more expensive anniversary presents:

  • Necklace with precious stones;
  • A set of jewelry (ring, earrings) of precious metals;
  • Guipure underwear for sleeping;
  • Certificate for expensive cosmetics of leading brands;
  • Sophisticated accessories (leather clutch, scarf or a wallet).


First-Anniversary Ideas: 7 Unique & Romantic Ways to Celebrate

The One Year Anniversary Advice

It may seem just yesterday when you said “I do,” but a whole year has passed—and now you're looking for first anniversary ideas to celebrate the special occasion.

Traditionally, your one year wedding anniversary is the “paper” anniversary, meaning you're supposed to celebrate by giving each other paper-based gifts.

While we love this notion, we also think there's nothing wrong with breaking with tradition by celebrating your first anniversary with a memorable experience instead.

Read on for seven ideas for what to do on your very first wedding anniversary—or any anniversary, for that matter (except for maybe that cake idea).

Ever wish you could relive your wedding day (only every day, right)? You can. Sort of. Go back in time and revisit the place where you said your vows. If you got married at a hotel, book a room for the evening.

You can even ask for the bridal suite if there are no weddings booked. If you got married at a restaurant, go back for dinner and possibly even order items that were served at your wedding.

Be sure to indulge in dessert, too, or head back home to have the top tier of your wedding cake if you've saved it.

It's tradition to eat the top layer of your wedding cake on your first anniversary. Take that custom to the next level by finding the most romantic local spot you can think of to have your cake. Whether it's a moonlit beach or the park where you met, make it extra special by finding a place that means something to you.

Time flies when you're having fun. But if the rest, relaxation, and bliss of your honeymoon feel oh-so far away—get town. Literally. It doesn't have to be as grandiose as your honeymoon (but it totally can be); it just has to be time spent together and away, making memories as you kick off your second year of marriage and the rest of your lives together.

Chances are the last time you had your hair or makeup professionally done was your wedding day. (If not, we're jealous.) So, treat yourself and glam it up for the night.

Make reservations at a fancy restaurant or buy tickets to a show for the perfect excuse (not that you need one) to look your best for a night on the town.

We're not talking the usual Friday night in with popcorn and wine.

Think more along the lines of a luxurious and relaxing in-home massage treatment (services Zeel will bring the spa to you), sexy lingerie, candles, music, and more.

Ditch your usual takeout options and cook up your favorite meal together, or order in from your favorite upscale restaurant. You won't need to leave the house (or the bedroom) for an anniversary to remember.

Once your wallets have recovered from all the costs associated with wedding planning, treat yourselves to something special to help commemorate your anniversary.

It can be a right-hand ring for you and the latest tech gadget for him or something you can purchase together that will last forever, a piece of art or an antique.

This just might be the first time since you got married that you treat yourselves so relish the experience and know that you're worth it.

Have you been considering getting couples tattoos? Your first anniversary is the perfect occasion to get matching ink. Choose tattoos of anything that means something special to the two of you.


30th Anniversary Couples Give Surprising Marriage Advice for Newlyweds

The One Year Anniversary Advice

Have you ever noticed that everyone seems to have marriage advice for newlyweds, even if they haven’t had a successful marriage themselves?

In fact, it occurs to me that the couples who have been married for 30 years or more tend to be fairly modest about their relationship accomplishments. Come to think of it, maybe their humility is one of the reasons that they have managed to stay happily married for so long!

The good news is that these amazing couples have plenty of advice to give. We just need to ask!

Along these lines, I thought that it would be fun to ask the women in our community who have been married for 30+ years to give some marriage advice for newlyweds. Within a few minutes of me asking the question, more than 50 women responded, offering some amazing ideas. Some of my favorites are below.

If someone in your family is getting married for the first time, I highly encourage you to share this list with them. Personally, I wish some had shared this advice with me when I go married. It would have saved me a lot of heartache!

Diane advised newlyweds to, “Keep your sense of humor and remember that no-one is perfect. Talk to your spouse and show them that you love them every day. Life will throw you curveballs. Just remember that paying attention to your relationship always pays off. We’ve been married for 40 years and we still love each other dearly.”

Susan added, “Remember that your marriage is a commitment that you need to work on every day. Say something nice before you leave the house each day. You never know when your partner will be gone.”

Barbara said, “It’s the song we sing together at church. None of Self and All of Thee. If both spouses practice this, everything will work out well!”

Carol, who has been married for 42 years, said, “Keep God in your marriage. Don’t try to change your spouse – just offer them plenty of praise and encouragement. Have your own interests. Don’t forget to have at least one date night per week – even if it’s just a cup of coffee with the cell phones switched off.”

Yvonne commented, “Communication and trust are just as important as commitment. Work every day to build all of these. We’ve been happily married for 39 years… and counting!”

Barb gave the following marriage advice for newlyweds, “Don’t let relatives ruin your marriage.”

Tessie added, “We’ve been married for 46 years. During this time, we’ve learned to have a sense of humor and laugh. Have a date night every week and dance together in the kitchen.”

Another Barb in the community said, “Be kind to each other. Never walk out angry – you don’t want this to be the last thing you remember about the person you love if something unexpected happens. Work hard and keep laughing.”

Amy gave the following marriage advice for newlyweds, “Laugh together every day. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Maintain your own individuality and personal space.”

Cherie gave some practical advice. She said, “Start saving for retirement as soon as you get back from your honeymoon.”

Kathleen said, “We’ve been married for 42 years… trust is a must, as well as, respect. Recognize that your partner has his or her pals and encourage them to spend time together.

No couple is perfect. No person is perfect. Remember that communication is essential. We’re not mind readers! Never assume anything and don’t run away when the times are rough.

Finally, always look for the good in your spouse.”

Janice, who has been married for 40 years, said, “Find things that you have in common and find time to do these things together. Your spouse should be your best friend. Most importantly, laugh, laugh and laugh some more. It’s good for your marriage and it keeps you young!

Finally, Donna offers, simply, “Pick your battles.”

I couldn’t agree more! Actually, this last piece of advice is good for everyone, married or not!

If you are just getting married, I wish you all the happiness in the world! I hope that you have found this advice useful! If you have been married for several decades, please continue to add your advice in the comments section below.

How long have you been married? What marriage advice would you give to newlyweds? What advice do you wish someone had given you when you got married? Please join the conversation.

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