How to Know When You Have a Crush

20 Signs You Have A Crush And Don’t Want To Admit It

How to Know When You Have a Crush

1.You complain about him to your friends all the time. But they are empty complaints everyone knows you don’t really mean. They are things he’s so annoying and ugh I hate him.

2. Whenever you look at his social media, you close the page before anyone can glance over your shoulder you were doing something wrong.

3. Your thoughts keep drifting to him whenever you read or shower or drive down the highway. You spend a decent chunk of time replaying conversations with him in your head, reliving the moment.

4. When he mentions how much he s a certain television show or band, you end up looking it up later to test whether you it too.

5. When your phone flashes and his name appears, you feel a slight flutter in your stomach. And when another name appears, you feel a slight drop.

6. You dress to impress him. You might not realize you are doing it — but if you don’t see him throughout the day, you’ll feel your outfit was wasted and will want to wear it again as soon as possible.

7. You take a while to text him back. Instead of typing out the first reply to pop into your head, you take your time answering his messages because you don’t want to come across the wrong way.

8. You avoid liking every single picture he posts — but you never scroll straight passed his pictures either. You look at them for a fraction too long, trying to figure out where the photograph was taken and who he was with at the time.

9. Little, stupid things remind you of him. This happens multiple times per day.

10. You keep coming up with random reasons to start a conversation with him. You’re always looking for excuses to send the first text.

11. You read deeply into everything he says. You analyze every move he makes.

12. Happy songs remind you of him. So do sad songs.

13. Whenever you go a few days without speaking to him, you end up in a sour mood.

14. You have had to explain to your friends fifty times that you do not him. But they keep asking. They don’t believe your denials.

15. You can list out all of the compliments he has given you. They are all pinned to your memory.

16. Whenever he asks you to hang out, you push aside everything in order to make time for him.

17. You pay close attention to him. You know every outfit in his wardrobe and the name of the cologne he wears.

18. You watch every single one of his stories to see how he’s been spending his weekends. Or you will at least squint to see what’s inside the bubble, trying to make out what pictures he took without having to click.

19. Thinking about him puts you in a frisky mood.

20. The idea of dating him is ridiculous to you. You cannot imagine yourselves as a couple. Of course… if you found out he had feelings for you, you would definitely consider going on a date with him.

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12 Subtle Signs Someone Has a Crush on You

How to Know When You Have a Crush

You might be asking yourself, does someone have a crush on me? It can be hard to tell whether someone is just being a good friend or if he or she has a romantic interest in you.

Some people are naturally loving to others, which can make it appear they have a romantic interest. This is what makes it hard to determine whether someone has a crush on you.

The good news is that there are ways to know if someone s you more than a friend.

The easiest way to find out if someone s you romantically is to come right out and ask, “Do you me?” However, this can be embarrassing and make the relationship awkward afterward.

There are subtle ways to know without coming out and asking directly.

Common signs someone has a crush on you can help you answer that burning question: “Does she have a crush on me?” or “Does he have a crush on me?”


Your potential love interest stares at you while you are in the middle of something or talking to someone. He or she may look away when you catch them staring at you, or might hold eye contact as if they're trying to memorize your features.


Smiling can be involuntary when there's genuine elation about seeing someone. Pay close attention if the smile encompasses their entire face, lighting up their eyes. Big, genuine smiles indicate happiness and can indicate a crush.


While it's true that friends can wink at each other without it indicating attraction, you might wonder what it means when they wink at you. If the person doesn't generally wink at others but starts picking up the habit of winking at you playfully, this can indicate flirtatious behavior resulting from a crush.


An increase in laughing or giggling at your jokes or just in normal conversations can signal romantic feelings or nervousness about being near a crush. People with crushes want the person to whom they're attracted to feel good about themselves and the time spent together, making laughter and lightheartedness a good indication of attraction.

Interest in Your Life

He or she becomes overly interested in your hobbies and your close friends. It is a way for him or her to get closer to you and know more about you and open up potential future conversations.

Behavior Changes

When you first met this person, he or she may have acted much differently than he or she does now. This behavior change is usually dramatic and there is no mistaking that something has changed. Sometimes behavior changes when a person realizes an attraction is there, particularly when they realize it's evolved into a full-blown crush.

You may receive calls to ask you a simple question that he or she could have found the answer to elsewhere much more easily. Your crush probably craves more interactions with you an will find excuses for them.

Increased Time Spent Together

This person suddenly changes his or her plans to spend more time with you. Your potential love interest may make excuses so you will spend more time with him or her. If you look at your schedule and suddenly realize the other person has worked their way into most of your days or evenings, this can be a good indication that it's intentional because they want to be with you.

Popping Up Everywhere

You start running into your friend in places you normally never see him or her, especially if you visit that place frequently. If you share locations on social media, there's a chance they keep an eye on this or perhaps ask friends where you'll be.

Making plans

Your friend invites you to events in the future. This is a good way to ensure that you are available later on so he or she can spend additional time with you. The more effort they put into spending time with you, the better the chances that there's a crush there.

Touching More

Your potential love interest starts to touch you on the arm, back or hand more than normal while talking. This is a primal desire to connect with you since they have a crush on you.

Friend's Help

If you have a friend who is also close to the suspected love interest, he or she can ask about interest in you.

Usually done without the person thinking you know anything about it, this person can say something , “I noticed you are acting different, do you have a crush on him or her?” Alternatively, if you notice the other person's friends asking you about your feelings, it may be that they're fulfilling a request from the person who has a crush on you.

The Knowledge of Having a Crush

If you answered yes to most of the above attributes than you probably have someone who s you romantically. Now, it is up to you what you want to do with this information. If you feel the same way, this is your chance to move forward.

Feeling the Same Way

Of course, you may still be afraid that you are wrong about how the other person feels about you so move slowly. Give the person more attention and notice the reaction. Start making plans with the person and use some of the same attributes above to show that you are interested as well.

Letting Your Crush Down Easy

Alternatively, if you do not want to move forward, try to find ways to let your love interest know you are not interested. Simply avoid some of the advances such as changing your schedule or hurrying conversations because you have somewhere else to go. After some time, he or she will either understand or grow tired of the chase since you are not feeding into it.

Is a Crush Love?

A crush can mean different things to different people. For some, “I have a crush,” actually means, “I'm falling in love.” Most frequently, however, a crush indicates an attraction and a desire to get to know someone better.

An initial crush can easily evolve into something more or can result in a friendship; there's no way to predict the trajectory of any relationship starting with a crush.

Remember that feelings can change and attraction can wane, so crushes can certainly be temporary.


6 Things Everyone Should Know If They Have A Crush On Someone

How to Know When You Have a Crush 24, 2018 · 5 min read

“You can close your eyes to the things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to the things you don’t want to feel. Johnny Depp

Life is full of missed opportunities and regrets. It seems impossible sometimes, to let out your romantic feelings.

If you have a sharp memory, it’s even harder because you can’t take it off your head.

How do you act if you have a crush on someone then?

Pablo Picasso said, “Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone.”

If you someone, you should absolutely make a move and let them know. You get to do it. You must do it because if you don’t, someone else will.

Can you imagine how would you feel at that time?

I know how terrible this feeling could be, and I hope that following these simple steps could help you to avoid the struggle.

I want to help you, I want you to be happy

1. Don’t Rush It Before They Notice You

“Love is an admiration that comes with patience. Lust is an admiration that comes with impatience. Israelmore Ayivor

Let’s face it, it takes time to get used to someone and not consider them as a stranger anymore, and it takes time to understand someone’s personality. What if you have a crush on somebody that it’s not a good fit for you?

I am not saying that you need to keep delaying the time waiting for the right moment, because “the right moment” might never come.

However, when you make sure that at least the other person has seen you before or you have had some spontaneous interactions, your next step won’t be a surprise to them and your chances to succeed will be higher.

Otherwise, they will be ; what! When! How! Who are you? Excuse me?

2. Eyes Never Lie

“Listen with your eyes for feelings. Stephen Covey

In French, they say: “ Loin des Yeux, Loin du Coeur.” Yeah, you are allowed to use Google Translate this time!

Eyes are a mirror of the soul and the heart. Unless the person you are interested in is an actor or has a very high emotional intelligence (EQ), their eyes can’t disguise their feelings.

Paying attention to this detail may be the most crucial key to evaluate your options.

3.Don’t Overthink Every Interaction You Had

“The head thinks. The heart knows. Rasheed Ogunlaru

-“Yesterday, we were at a work event, and suddenly he sneezed so hard, do you think this is a sign he s me?” She is asking her best girlfriend.

-“Today, she said good morning. But, at 12 pm! It’s late; Do you think she is into me?” He is asking his buddy who has never been in a relationship.

Despite endless small interactions that could happen and some of it could be an expression of interests, you shouldn’t let your crush become an unhealthy obsession.

It could take over your life and make you perform poorly in other tasks work and study, or it could also affect your relationships with friends and family

4.Don’t Make These Mistakes

“An error doesn’t become a mistake until you refuse to correct it. Orlando Aloysius Battista

Although there is no proven science about this list of don’t(s), there are some points that could kill a potential relationship at an early stage.

– Don’t send 100 texts at once; one is enough!
– Don’t accept last minute invites; you’ve got things to do. Remember this.
– Don’t start small meaningless talks. i.e.

how are you, good, where do you live, where do you work,
excellent, bye
– Don’t show too much attention
– Don’t creep them on social media and don’t shock them with the questions : “So how was your uncle’s vacation
in Italy back in ’05?”

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5. You Definitely Should Let Them Know

“The first step is you have to say that you can. Will Smith


I would love to tell how? Direct way or a more subtle one! But definitely, it’s not today’s topic

6. Save Your Time

“There’s nothing rejection to make you do an inventory of yourself. Will Smith

Once you show your crush interests, the good news is that you have saved your time. The bad news you’ve got to deal with one of these two situations and both are hard to manage.

Either the person has mutual feelings and you will start to get to know each other on a deeper level, or you get negative vibes. Consequently, you have to deal with it.

First, any answer different than yes we should, sure or something similar, you should consider as a no. Naturally, a person who is interested in you will find a way to let you know sooner or later.

Second, if you don’t move on, you will get fried with your thoughts. Stay away from your crush, a huge NO for a friend zone. It’s not because your crush is not a nice person. They are just not the right person for you at that time.

If you stick around, you will be suffering every day, and you won’t be able to forget about them; you will get classified as a friend, and in case one day for some reasons they are ready for a new experience it will be indeed with someone else, not you.

Finally, instead of losing yourself in them, focus on yourself. You will have a chance to find a new hobby, define the people you are compatible with, improve some points in your personality, style or social circle and improve communication skills.

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